Upset: meaning, definitions and examples

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upset

 

[ ʌpˈsɛt ]

Adjective / Verb
Oxford 3000
Context #1 | Adjective

feeling

Feeling unhappy or disappointed because something unpleasant has happened.

Synonyms

disappointed, disheartened, distressed, saddened.

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Word Description / Examples
upset

This can be used in a variety of situations where someone is generally troubled or disturbed, often by something unexpected.

  • She was upset when she found out she didn't get the job.
  • The bad news about the project made him upset.
distressed

This is used for situations where someone is experiencing severe anxiety, worry, or pain.

  • He was distressed by the news of the accident.
  • The child's crying made her mother feel distressed.
saddened

This is fitting when expressing mild to moderate sorrow or grief over something unfortunate.

  • We were saddened to hear about her passing.
  • The poor living conditions in the city saddened him.
disheartened

Use this when describing someone who has lost hope or enthusiasm due to difficulties or setbacks.

  • The team was disheartened after consecutive losses.
  • She felt disheartened by the lack of progress in her work.
disappointed

This is appropriate when someone feels let down because their expectations were not met.

  • I was disappointed with my test results.
  • He was disappointed when the event was cancelled.

Examples of usage

  • She was upset by the news of his death.
  • He was upset that he didn't get the job.
Context #2 | Adjective

emotion

Emotionally disturbed or agitated; distraught.

Synonyms

agitated, distraught, perturbed, troubled.

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Word Description / Examples
upset

Commonly used to describe someone who is unhappy or disappointed, often because of a specific event or situation.

  • She was upset after hearing the bad news.
  • I'm really upset about the argument we had.
distraught

Strong emotional discomfort, usually implying that the person is deeply troubled or distressed, often to the point of being unable to think or act properly.

  • She was distraught after the sudden loss of her friend.
  • He was too distraught to speak.
agitated

More intense than 'upset', often indicating a state of nervousness or anxiety, typically due to external pressure or internal stress.

  • He was clearly agitated during the meeting.
  • The dog became agitated when it heard the thunder.
troubled

Typically used to describe someone who is experiencing emotional or mental difficulties, often over a prolonged period.

  • He had a troubled childhood.
  • The community is troubled by increasing crime rates.
perturbed

Describes a state of being slightly disturbed or worried, often in a more formal or intellectual context.

  • She was perturbed by the strange noises at night.
  • The professor seemed perturbed by the student's question.

Examples of usage

  • She was upset after the argument.
  • He was upset by the breakup.
Context #3 | Verb

action

To disturb the normal state of; to make someone feel unhappy or worried.

Synonyms

agitate, disrupt, disturb, unsettle.

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Word Description / Examples
upset

When someone feels sad, disappointed, or troubled due to an unexpected or unpleasant event.

  • She was upset after hearing the bad news.
  • The argument with her friend really upset her.
disturb

When someone or something is interrupted or caused minor anxiety. Can also refer to physical or mental peace being broken.

  • Please do not disturb the baby while she is sleeping.
  • The unexpected noise disturbed my concentration.
unsettle

When someone feels uneasy or uncertain, often due to a change or something unpredictable.

  • The sudden change in plans unsettled her.
  • The creepy movie scene unsettled the audience.
disrupt

When something is broken, interrupted, or thrown into disorder, often referring to systems, activities, or events.

  • The train service was disrupted by the snowstorm.
  • The phone call disrupted the important meeting.
agitate

When someone is made anxious, nervous, or stirred up emotionally. Often implies a stronger emotional reaction.

  • Seeing the news about the disaster agitated him.
  • The loud noises from the construction site agitated the residents.

Examples of usage

  • The news upset her greatly.
  • The sudden change in plans upset him.

Translations

Translations of the word "upset" in other languages:

🇵🇹 chateado

🇮🇳 उदास

🇩🇪 verärgert

🇮🇩 kesal

🇺🇦 засмучений

🇵🇱 zdenerwowany

🇯🇵 動揺した (dōyō shita)

🇫🇷 contrarié

🇪🇸 molesto

🇹🇷 üzgün

🇰🇷 화난 (hwanan)

🇸🇦 منزعج

🇨🇿 rozčilený

🇸🇰 rozčúlený

🇨🇳 心烦 (xīnfán)

🇸🇮 razburjen

🇮🇸 leiður

🇰🇿 ренжіген

🇬🇪 გაბრაზებული

🇦🇿 kədərlənmiş

🇲🇽 molesto

Etymology

The word 'upset' originated in the mid-16th century, derived from the prefix 'up-' meaning 'in an upward direction' and the verb 'set'. Originally used in the context of setting something upright or in an elevated position, it later evolved to also convey the sense of disturbance or agitation. Over time, 'upset' came to be associated with feelings of unhappiness or emotional turmoil.

See also: up, upend, upmost, upper, upright, upsides, upward, upwards.

Word Frequency Rank

At #5,441 in frequency, this word belongs to advanced vocabulary. It's less common than core vocabulary but important for sophisticated expression.