Shyness: meaning, definitions and examples

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shyness

 

[ ˈʃaɪnɪs ]

Noun
Context #1 | Noun

feeling

Shyness is the feeling of being nervous or timid when around other people, especially in unfamiliar situations.

Synonyms

bashfulness, timidity, timorousness.

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Word Description / Examples
shyness

General term for feeling uncomfortable or nervous in social situations. It can be used broadly to describe a reluctance to engage with others.

  • Her shyness made it difficult for her to speak up in meetings
  • He overcame his shyness through public speaking classes
timidity

Describes a more pronounced reluctance to engage due to fear or lack of confidence. It often implies a more significant hindrance in actions or behavior.

  • Due to his timidity, he declined the leadership role even though he was qualified
  • Her timidity prevented her from asking for a deserved raise
bashfulness

Often used to describe a charming or endearing form of shyness, typically in children or in situations where the shyness is perceived as cute or innocent.

  • The little girl’s bashfulness was evident when she hid behind her mother
  • His bashfulness made him blush whenever someone complimented him
timorousness

A stronger term that emphasizes fearfulness and hesitation. It is often used in more formal contexts or to describe an ongoing state of anxiety and apprehension.

  • The timorousness in his voice was evident during the intense negotiation
  • Her timorousness kept her from venturing too far from home

Examples of usage

  • Her shyness often prevented her from speaking up in class meetings.
  • His shyness made it difficult for him to make new friends.
Context #2 | Noun

personality trait

Shyness can also refer to a personality trait characterized by a tendency to feel nervous or timid in social situations.

Synonyms

introversion, reservedness, reticence.

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shyness

Used when someone feels nervous or timid in social situations and may avoid them.

  • Her shyness made it difficult for her to speak in front of the class.
  • Due to his shyness, he preferred to stay at home instead of going to the party.
introversion

Describes a personality trait where someone feels more comfortable being alone or with a small group of close friends rather than in large social gatherings.

  • John's introversion makes him enjoy reading books and spending time alone.
  • Introversion doesn't mean someone is antisocial; they might just need time to recharge alone.
reservedness

Refers to someone who is restrained in expressing emotions or opinions, particularly in public or with people they don't know well.

  • Her reservedness often made people think she was uninterested, even though she was paying attention.
  • In meetings, his reservedness led him to listen more than speak.
reticence

Describes the tendency to be quiet and unwilling to share thoughts or feelings, often due to reluctance or caution.

  • His reticence about his plans made it hard for his friends to support him.
  • Despite her reticence, she eventually opened up about her experiences.

Examples of usage

  • Her shyness is part of her charm.
  • Despite his shyness, he was a great listener.

Etymology

The word 'shyness' originated from the Old English word 'scynnes', meaning 'shame' or 'disgrace'. Over time, its meaning evolved to represent a feeling of timidity or nervousness in social situations. Shyness is a common human trait experienced by people of all ages and backgrounds.

See also: shyly.

Word Frequency Rank

With rank #18,996, this word belongs to specialized vocabulary. While not common in everyday speech, it enriches your ability to express complex ideas.