Wheedle: meaning, definitions and examples

To persuade someone through flattery or smooth-talking. Often used in a more light-hearted way, without negative connotations.

• She managed to wheedle her way into the exclusive club by complimenting the doorman.
• He wheedled a few extra dollars out of his parents for the concert ticket.

To persuade someone patiently or gently, often when dealing with someone who is initially unwilling or unsure.

• He coaxed the frightened kitten out from under the couch.
• She coaxed her friend into trying sushi for the first time.

Used when trying to influence someone gently or subtly, often with persistent flattery or promises. It implies some level of resistance from the person being persuaded.

• Despite initial reluctance, he cajoled her into going to the party.
• She cajoled him into lending her the car for a few hours.

To give excessive or insincere praise, often to gain favor or advantage. It can have a negative connotation if the praise is clearly overdone or manipulative.

• He flattered his boss in hopes of getting a promotion.
• The salesperson flattered the customer endlessly, trying to make a sale.

To control or influence someone in a clever but often unfair or unethical manner. This word has a strong negative connotation.

• She manipulated her colleagues to get them to support her proposal.
• He felt like he was being manipulated into making a decision he didn't want.