Paramour: meaning, definitions and examples

A term for a secret or illicit lover, often used in literature or formal contexts. Carries a connotation of something romantic yet forbidden.

• He met his paramour in the old garden, away from prying eyes.
• The novel tells the tale of a king and his paramour.

A general term for someone engaged in a romantic or intimate relationship. It is neutral and can apply to both current and ongoing relationships.

• They were lovers for many years before they got married.
• She wrote a letter to her lover every day while he was away.

A term for a woman who is in a romantic relationship with a married man. Often carries a negative connotation of secrecy and illicitness.

• The businessman was caught with his mistress in a hotel.
• She lived a life of luxury due to her status as his mistress.

Usually refers to a passionate or old romantic interest. Can be nostalgic or invoke a sense of strong affection, often from the past.

• She ran into her old flame at the reunion.
• Their flame burned bright but was short-lived.