Tomcatted: meaning, definitions and examples
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tomcatted
[ ˈtɒmkætɪd ]
slang usage
To be 'tomcatted' refers to being manipulated, deceived, or treated unfairly, often in a romantic context. This term is derived from the behavior of male cats, or tomcats, who can be seen as promiscuous and often engage in manipulative behavior to attract female cats. The term suggests being led on or toyed with by someone who may not have genuine intentions. It's commonly used in conversations about relationships where one partner feels betrayed or misled.
Synonyms
deceived, led on, manipulated.
Examples of usage
- I can't believe I was tomcatted by her!
- He totally tomcatted me into thinking he was serious.
- Don't let yourself get tomcatted like that again.
Etymology
The origin of the term 'tomcat' comes from the early 17th century, where 'tom' was a common name for male cats, particularly those with distinct, vivid markings. The association of tomcats with promiscuity and aggressive mating behavior led to the usage of the term in various slang contexts. Over time, 'tomcatting' evolved to denote not just the behavior of animals but also the actions of individuals in human social and romantic interactions. It reflects the common perception of tomcats as cunning and unpredictable, thus coining a term that captures the dubious nature of some personal relationships. By the late 20th century, 'tomcatted' emerged in slang to describe situations where individuals felt misled or manipulated in a partnership, emphasizing its rootedness in feline behavior analogies.