Abashed: meaning, definitions and examples

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abashed

 

[əˈbæʃt ]

Definition

Context #1 | Adjective

feeling ashamed

Abashed refers to feeling embarrassed, disconcerted, or ashamed, typically due to a mistake or socially awkward situation. This emotion can arise in various contexts, such as public speaking, introducing oneself, or receiving undeserved criticism. When someone is abashed, they might experience a rush of warm color in their cheeks or an instinctive desire to withdraw from the spotlight. It is often a reaction to feeling exposed or judged by others.

Synonyms

ashamed, disconcerted, embarrassed.

Examples of usage

  • She felt abashed after stumbling over her words during the presentation.
  • He was abashed when he realized everyone had heard his embarrassing story.
  • The child looked abashed after being scolded for not listening.
  • I felt abashed when I forgot my friend's birthday.

Interesting Facts

Etymology

  • The word comes from the Middle English 'abasshen,' which means to 'cause to lose courage.'
  • Its roots trace back to the Old French 'abaisser,' meaning to 'lower down or humble,' hinting at a loss of confidence.

Psychology

  • Being abashed can trigger a fight-or-flight response, affecting how we react in social situations.
  • Feeling this way gets more intense in large groups, often linked to social anxiety and fear of judgment.

Literature

  • The term has appeared in works by Shakespeare, who used it to convey characters’ deep feelings in complex situations.
  • It often describes moments of vulnerability in characters, revealing their emotional depth and human fragility.

Pop Culture

  • In various TV shows and movies, characters feel abashed when they accidentally embarrass themselves in front of someone they like.
  • Social media has amplified feelings of being abashed, as people may feel uncomfortable sharing less-than-perfect moments online.

Cultural Significance

  • In many cultures, feelings of abashment can lead to social withdrawal, emphasizing the importance of maintaining face and dignity.
  • Rituals or ceremonies in certain cultures, like coming-of-age celebrations, address the feeling of being abashed as part of personal growth and maturity.

Translations

Translations of the word "abashed" in other languages:

🇵🇹 envergonhado

🇮🇳 शर्मिंदा

🇩🇪 verlegen

🇮🇩 malu

🇺🇦 сором'язливий

🇵🇱 zażenowany

🇯🇵 気まずい

🇫🇷 embarrassé

🇪🇸 vergonzoso

🇹🇷 utangaç

🇰🇷 당황한

🇸🇦 محرج

🇨🇿 zaražený

🇸🇰 zahanbený

🇨🇳 尴尬的

🇸🇮 sramoten

🇮🇸 vandræðalegur

🇰🇿 ұялу

🇬🇪 დაბნეული

🇦🇿 tənhalıq

🇲🇽 avergonzado

Word Frequency Rank

Positioned at #24,842, this word is part of extensive vocabulary. It's relatively rare in general usage but may be important in specific fields or formal writing.